We constantly blame the world, our life, the kids, the wife and a thousand other conditions and people for the way we are and what we perceive to be our failings in life. We justify this by saying that without cause there can be no effect. Yet without effect there is no cause. Without you as the parent, your son or daughter could not be, yet is it not your son who gives you parenthood. Look at your lives through different eyes and from a different perspective and see just how different you can make it. Chicken and egg, or cause and effect, either way it is the perfect circle, do you have the courage to look at things differently?