Without cause there can be no effect and yet surely without effects there can be no cause. Without the father there can be no son, this is the way of things and yet without the son there can be no fatherhood. That which you have looked at and regarded in a fixed way is but a part of an eternal circle, without cause nor effect. In every circle traveled there is no beginning nor end and whether you

 travel forward or backwards the journey will take you back to the only sure point, and that is where you stand. How you got there is a matter of perspective. If you ask the opinion of another, their understanding of the circumstances may well be different to yours and requires acceptance without judgement to see the complete picture. May I wish you a day without judgement and filled with total acceptance my friend.