To acknowledge that another has injured you in some way and yet forgive them is a paradox that normal reason cannot reconcile. By offering forgiveness you are maintaining that your brother's transgression deserves no forgiveness. By forgiving you grant your brother mercy and yet in doing so maintain the proof that they are not innocent and therefore accused. Whoever truly forgives is truly healed and in that healing lies the proof that he has truly pardoned without trace of condemnation of anything or any one. May I wish you a day filled with true healing my friend.